I've had you for 45 years in my life. Many would say that is a lot, but for me it's not nearly enough, my fierce, fierce friend. I will always miss your no-nonsense approach to life, your sharp mind, your dry sense of humour, your joy in treasuring each small pleasure life can give, our long walks in the park and our even longer phone calls where we could never exhaust all the things we had to say to each other.
Eli was generous to a fault, a true friend who really saw you for you, who was present and ready to defend you even against your family or even against yourself, if she thought you were unjustly treated. All children naturally gravitated towards her, and that said a lot. She dearly loved all her nieces and nephews and she was their close confidant, not just their aunt. She loved mathematics, but she loved more what maths can do to open young minds, to broaden their reasoning. Eli was a creator, planner and organiser of joy, because she was that rare person who gave away the best presents: pieces of her soul, time, memories, and experiences. I am beyond grateful for every moment we got to spend together, despite being a world apart for so many years.
It takes a village to raise a child and she was part of our global village, always a mentor, a model and a close friend to Andrada.
The piece of advice she gave Andrada when she turned 18 will stay with me forever, and it's very valuable advice for anyone: it's always the easiest to see the bad in people, but you must try your hardest to see the best in them, to seek for what makes them human.
No words can express how much we will miss you, Eli! Until I will see you again, rest in peace, my dearest friend! 🖤
Vis mer
Vis mindre